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fear is trusting in your own power

“Fear is Trusting in your own Power.” – Marianne Williamson

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Wow. Anyone else get goosebumps after reading that quote? I sure did. It truly resonates with me. Personally I have been one who has fought with that. Fearing my own power. Being so incredibly powerful (not the power that would take over the world for my own selfish reasons) but a power that resides within and removes lack, worry and fear, when you think of something BAM! it is manifested. It already happens and I am amazed every time.  I know, like I know, like I know how the “Laws” work yet will it (trusting that power) consume me? Will it take me over? Will I loose all that I know as “Shay” and who she has been? Maybe. But what if the new Shay is so much better, so much more of service, can assist that many more people? Who am I to hold that back? How dare I hold that back? It also ties into the Phoenix which is a symbol that is sooooo me. So near and dear to my heart and is really who I am and am becoming. That symbol has also scared me ever since it showed up in a dream of mine that woke me up out of a dead sleep not too many years ago. (I will have to tell you more about the Phoenix another time but it is a really cool story!)

This quote also reminds me of Marianne’s other quote:

  • Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.’ We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people will not feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone and as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give others permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

 

I have even re-worked it, put it into more of an “I Am” statement, present tense form and this is what is on my bathroom mirror to read everyday.

“I am powerful beyond measure.

It is my light that empowers.

I am brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous.

I am a child of the Universe.

I play BIG to serve the world.

I am enlightened.

People feel secure around me.

I shine, just as children do.

I was born to make manifest the glory of God that is within me.

As I let my own light shine, I unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.

I am liberated from my own fear.

My presence automatically liberates others.”

-Marianne Williamson re-written by Shay Wheat

 

The thing is we all have this immense power we possess and can tap into. The question is will we allow the fear to take over and leave the power within dormant or do we allow our own Phoenix to open its wings and be reborn to take flight once again. You are that powerful and to me it feels like it’s time that more and more of us trust in that fear of our power and let the light shine. It’s time to StandUpAndLead. Lead yourself and your presence will automatically liberate others to do the same.

I look forward to your comments and emails on times you have trusted your power, what you currently fear is holding you back and how you are taking action to move forward or looking for support to move forward. We are here to Shine and I am so excited to be on this journey with you. Let’s lock arms together and make a difference.

Love and Light,

Shay Wheat

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Dreams don't come true because a person does something well once and a while...Dreams come true when someone performs with excellence day after day. -John Maxwell

How Dreams Come True

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Dreams don't come true because a person does something well once and a while...Dreams come true when someone performs with excellence day after day. -John Maxwell

Dreams don’t come true because a person does something well once and a while…Dreams come true when someone performs with excellence day after day. -John Maxwell

Sticky Note of the Day: “Dreams don’t come true because a person does something well once and a while…Dreams come true when someone performs with excellence day after day.” -John Maxwell

 

So really John, what you are saying is doing something consistently, everyday, no matter how small, is better than something big every now and then. Guess the way I look at it is “eat an apple a day vs 30 apples in one day!” (Whew that would be a TON of apples if you did it all in one day). Okay I get it.

Mr. Maxwell also speaks about how he makes sure he does 5 things, just 5 everyday. Rain or shine, holidays, birthdays, weekends, everyday, 5 things to assist him in his goals, dreams, aspirations and development of himself and his leadership. Would you like to know what he does?

 

 

John Maxwell’s Rule of 5:

1. Reads

2. Files his ideas

3. Asks Questions

4. Thinks

5. Writes

That’s it. They aren’t huge. They aren’t hard but over time it adds up…BIG TIME! He has been doing this for years and it has become a habit. He is someone who performs with excellence day after day in these 5 key areas. After knowing this it makes sense how to date he has written more than 60 books and has been featured multiple times in SUCCESS Magazine, not to mention all of his speaking engagements and training new trainers.

How does this fit into your world? What 5 things or even 1, 2, 3 things would you commit to do, everyday if it meant you could turn your dreams into reality? Are your dreams worth it? It reminds me of the old saying “It you fail to plan, you plan to fail.” These 5 things for John Maxwell are part of his plan to achieve what he desires in this lifetime.

Can’t think of anything at the moment? Use John’s 5 things. It works, just tailor it to you in terms of what to read, filing ideas/quotes/thoughts/messages/etc. Make it your own, do it consistently and in the direction of your dreams then watch them become reality.

Easy to do, easy not to do. How bad do you want it?

 

Dream Big my friends,

Shay

 

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Friends are in it for the long haul

Return to Happiness: Great Friends are in it for the Long Haul

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Today’s post is a guest post from a dear friend of mine Ryan John Phillips, creator of Return To Happiness. I had the pleasure of meeting Ryan at the beginning of this year and he is one of those friends that when you meet it feels like you have known them forever! Please take a look at the great things Ryan is doing in the world and enjoy his guest post today.
Friends are in it for the long haul

Friends are in it for the long haul

What would we do without “true” friends in our lives? I know my friends and family make up my world. What is a true friend? A true friend is a person who is in your life, that loves you unconditionally with no judgement. We all go through experiences and tests in life and it’s the people that stay by your side (no matter what) that are to be cherished and held in the highest ranks of friendship. Being a true friend back is also a very important factor in the growth of any relationship. It’s also very important not to dump too many of your issues onto friends for the benefit of their own well being. There’s such a thing as energy “givers” and “takers.” You know the people that drain you sometimes because their paradigms are stuck in negative thought patters. Our duty as friends is to help elevate, and inspire to bring out the best in others. Our own actions is what immediately draws people to us in the first place and they don’t always have to come through the words we speak, instead by the deeds we perform. I’ve been guilty in my past of flash judgments and putting down others, but ask yourself what good that does for you and the other person? How does it make your body and mind feel? Not very good in most cases and it really serves no purpose either as everything is reciprocated back through the law of compensation. My idealism’s have changed a lot in my thirties on what the true meaning of this word we call friendship is. I just do my best to be present and give good advice. When we sow good deeds to others in the form of being a great friend the reward is one that can’t be matched by anything. It’s a great to have like beings laughing joyously and also to share tears as well. That’s what makes true friendship real and so worth while. I’m sure you have one friend that sticks out in mind that is your rock. Do both of yourselves a favor today and tell he or she how much you care about them and make today one of joy, bliss and love.

God Bless RJP.
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Monday Notes – April 16, 2012

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” Accept yourself so you can expect more from yourself.” – Gretchen Robin, writer, The Happiness Project

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Thursday Notes – April 12, 2012

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” The key to real, lasting change lies somewhere between what you know and what you do.  It’s what you think. To shift your behavior, start by transforming your thoughts.” – Lisa Oz, Author

This note was found by Rs015823. Thank you for sending this in!

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Tuesday Notes – April 10, 2012

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” Change is inevitable. Take it from a couple who have made transformation their life’s work.” -David and Dania Maas, Quick Change Artists

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Monday Notes – April 9, 2012

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” Envision it: a world with more love in it, simply because we want it that way.” – Dr. Robert Epstein, Author, Professor

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This is a great chance to show Leadership and Expand your influence.

Saturday Notes – April 7, 2012

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“Every day is another chance to serve. The opportunity to serve others is one of life’s greatest privileges.” – Holly Robinson Peete, Actress, Author, Activist, Philanthropist

 

This note came in from Doug R. Who found the note at The Sacramento Animal Hospital. Thanks for sending this in Doug and thank you for assisting in taking care of Sacramento’s sick animals!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
Love this one too! There are always opportunities for teachable moments, the question is… are you looking for them and are you taking advantage of them? I challenge you, by tomorrow, to take a look for a teaching moment. Feel free to email me, I would love to hear about your observation.
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Wednesday Notes – April 4, 2012

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“Get your R.A.M. on! “R” is for Realization, when you REALIZE it all begins with you. Realize who you are before you know where to go.” – Erin Brockovich, Environmental Activist, Author

 

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Nothing will change until you do

Thursday Notes – March 22, 2012

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” Time will never give you the window of “perfect time”. But it will always give you a window to be perfect at any “time”. – Daymond John, CEO, FUBU, The Collection, Branding Expert, Author, Shark Tank investor

 

This quote and sticky note below really do drive the point home. If you want to make something happen in your life the only one who can make it so is….YOU! So what are you waiting for? No one else is going to do it for you, they have to do it for themselves as well! The time is Perfect, the Time is now!

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Ah to inspire and be a positive impact on someone’s life or to take that impact and create a negative reaction. Choices, Choices, Choices. We are always in Choice.

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